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October is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month!

10/9/2017

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In October 1988, President Ronald Reagan Proclaimed October as National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month.  He stated, "When a child loses his parent, they are called an orphan. When a spouse loses her or his partner, they are called a widow or widower. When parents lose their child, there isn't a word to describe them. This month recognizes the loss so many parents experience across the United States and around the world. It is also meant to inform and provide resources for parents who have lost children due to miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, molar pregnancy, stillbirths, birth defects, SIDS, and other causes."
 
President Reagan touched the hearts and grief of millions by making that bold statement and since, bereaved parents across the country began to recognize and honor their grief in losing a pregnancy and/or infant. This has sparked a movement for families everywhere to openly and proudly discuss their babies and their loss as personally or publically as they wanted. 
 
From that, October 15 has become a universal day of remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death. This day is observed with remembrance ceremonies and candle-lighting vigils, concluding with the International Wave of Light worldwide lighting of candles. 






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It is important for families to acknowledge their loss as they find appropriate, however, many need permission to grieve these losses.  When you are ready, it's important for you and your family to remember your baby in ways that are special. Even if you may not have had the chance to see, touch or hold him or even give your baby a name, there are things you can do to help you remember your baby.  Collect things that remind you of your baby. These might be ultrasound pictures, footprints, a hospital bracelet, photos, clothes, blankets or toys. Put them in a special box or scrapbook. Do or make something special to remember your baby. In addition to participating in the Wave of Light Ceremony, you may also find the following things helpful in coping with your loss:
 
  • Light a candle on special days and holidays. 
  • Say a prayer. 
  • Write a poem. 
  • Create a journal and talk to your baby and express your feelings.
  • Paint a picture. 
  • Plant a tree or a small garden. 
  • Have a piece of jewelry made, perhaps with the baby's birthstone. 
  • Donate to a charity or give something to a needy child who is about the same age as your baby would be. 
  • Get involved in a special project dedicated to your baby, such as raising money to build a swing set in a park in your baby’s name, or volunteer for a local charity. 
  • Have a service to honor your baby. This can be a memorial service, funeral, or saying Kaddish (the Jewish prayer for the dead). It can be at your home or at your place of worship. It can be with just a few people or with all friends and family. It may include burying your baby or spreading his ashes in a special place. A service can give you a chance to say goodbye to your baby. And it gives you a time to share your sorrow with family and friends. 
  • Have a special time to remember. Pick a date that’s meaningful to you--your baby's birthday or the day he died. Do something on your own, or bring family and friends together to remember your baby. 
 
Three Little Birds Perinatal & Palliative Care Advocacy and Support Center’s mission is to support families through these losses. Your loss does not have to be recent for us to support you.  Grief is a life-long battle and we have several qualified empathetic support volunteer who can discuss your thoughts and feelings with you.  YOU ARE NOT ALONE.  You and your baby matter to us and we are here to support you, but more importantly honor and validate your baby’s memory.

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    Kristen Samuelson, SBD, Founder & Director
    Bereavement Doula, Loss Mama, Photographer & Family Advocate

    Desiree Miller, SBD, Co-Founder & Bereavement Doula, Photographer & Family Advocate

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  • SERVICES
    • Funeral Assistance
    • Infertility Support
    • Loss Support >
      • Early Loss >
        • Elective Termination
        • Miscarriage Support
      • Infant Loss >
        • Infant Loss
        • Neonatal Loss
        • Palliative Care
        • Stillbirth
      • Loss Support for Dads
      • Loss Support for Siblings
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      • Educational Outreach
      • Hospital Sponsorships
      • Supporting the Bereaved
      • TLB Manifesto
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    • Local Support Groups
    • Memorial Items
    • Online Resources
    • Pregnancy Portraits
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    • Businesses >
      • Community Event Sponsors
      • Community Partners
      • Corporate Sponsorships
      • In-Kind Donations
    • Host a "Wish List" Drive
    • Personal Donations >
      • Monetary Donations
      • Legacy Sponsorships
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  • NEWS & EVENTS
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      • Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Event
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