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"Grief is not a disorder, a disease or sign of weakness. It is an emotional, physical and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love. The only cure for grief is to grieve". - Earl A Grollman
Can you believe it is mid-summer already? While summertime is hailed as a happy time making memories with family by most, it is often a trigger for families who have lost a pregnancy or baby because of all the memories and rites of childhood that are NOT being made.
Each grief journey is as unique as the individual who walks its path. That being recognized, an aspect of grief that is common to all who grieve is the need for self-care. We know it may be hard to self prioritize your needs, we encourage you to take some time to yourself to focus on self care and relax.
Grief may be experienced in a variety of ways—emotionally, physically, cognitively, psychologically and even spiritually. The reactions of our minds and bodies to grief can include symptoms such as fatigue, sleep disturbances, appetite changes, mood fluctuations, forgetfulness, loss of concentration and even despair. Coping with all of these potential responses may be overwhelming, but there are some things you can do to manage your grief while continuing to function day-to-day.
Accept your feelings.
Feelings are neither right nor wrong, they just are. Sadness, loneliness, fear, confusion, anger—these are among the many feelings you may experience, and are completely normal. Emotions are often raw early in the grief process, but it is important to express them. Attempting to stifle feelings usually leads to an emotional outburst at an inconvenient time.
Be patient with yourself.
Grief is an intensely personal process. Accept that it follows no magic formula or time frame. It will take as long as it takes. Think of the care you would extend to a friend in the same situation of loss, and allow yourself that same grace. Be careful not to take on responsibilities beyond what is realistic. It is better to allow for some flexibility in your obligations during this time.
Pay attention to physical needs.
It can be very easy to neglect your physical needs while grieving. However, this is a time when taking good care of yourself is crucial. As difficult as it may seem, making every effort to get adequate sleep, eat nutritionally balanced meals and fit in regular exercise and intentional relaxation can do wonders.
By pursuing a healthy routine, you are preparing yourself to take on the new challenges facing you during this difficult time. In addition to these efforts, a check-up with your physician is also recommended. Be certain to make your physician aware that you have experienced a loss.
Accept the help of others.
Understand that grief is hard work. It requires a great deal of energy and can be exhausting. Even though we place a high value on self-sufficiency, it is important to ask for, and accept, help from those close to you.
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The following suggestions were written to help you take care of yourself following the loss of a pregnancy or baby, but apply to any kind of loss you might be experiencing.
Three Little Birds wishes you all a happy, healthy and healing summer. We are here to support you immediately and long-term through the tremendous loss of a pregnancy or child. Please do not hesitate to reach us via text, email, telephone or social media for free support!
In an effort to provide empathetic support where it is lacking, Three Little Birds is seeking to develop a Dad's Support Network to support the varying needs of father's who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss, or infertility.
The goal of this group is to gather interested men who can assist in the development of support items, events and outreach to other father's experiencing similar circumstances.
If you are interested in joining our group of empathetic father's to develop these services and programs, please contact firstname.lastname@example.org with your name and contact information. We will be in touch soon about what we are working on, any ideas or connections you may have and how we can provide this much needed support immediately and long term!
Three Little Birds is honored to benefit from an exciting event hosted by our Program Sponsors the Essential Lightworker and Franks & Beans Events!
This event is a refreshing new take on Bingo with your chance to win over $500 in prizes!
Learn a little bit about a lot of different holistic modalities while having fun playing Bingo.
Bingo prizes include:
* Reiki Session by Judy Dingler of Your Guide to Serenity
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* Detox Footbath from Essential Lightworker Bridget Papagno
* Float Tank experience at Infinity Float of Mt Laurel
* Psychic Reading with 3 follow-up emails with Psychic Medium Deena Janel
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Join Bridget for this fun-filled, prize-winning BYOB event where she’ll answer all your questions about easy ways to live a holistic lifestyle, your way.
The evening includes:
* BYOB with healthful ‘Sweet & Savory Light Bites’
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* Extra cards available for sale to benefit Three Little Birds Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support
* Fundraising prize drawing to benefit Three Little Birds
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Seating limited, so get your tickets now!
Kristen Samuelson, SBD, Founder & Director